How could anyone not laugh at this?! I love it!

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Joy Journal: A full day at home with the sun shining! No rain!

Joy Journal: A full day at home with the sun shining! No rain!
Sitting in a hospital room round the clock is a truly mind-numbing experience. But it can also be a real bonding experience. My brother has now had his surgery for his mouth cancer and is starting the long road to recovery. The doctors are convinced that he will make a full recovery and will be fine. But it won’t be much fun for him getting there. He is showing an amazing emotional resilience and I’m really proud of him. And I feel like I am really contributing to his recovery by being here for him, helping him keep his surgical area clean, intervening with nurses and doctors when he can’t make himself understood (he had a temporary tracheotomy) and making sure that he gets good care from the hospital staff. It’s good be needed and be able to help.

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Joy Journal: Friday. I don't have to go to work tomorrow.

My brother is about to enter a very difficult time in his life. A cancer has been found in his gum and he is going to have to have some painful surgery followed by some debilitating radiation. A small part of his lower jaw and gum will need to be removed. While the doctor has told him it won’t be disfiguring, it will certainly be life altering. He’s been a heavy smoker for many years and now payment has come due. But there isn’t any satisfaction in “I told you so”. My heart is breaking for him and for his wife, who is a 15+ year survivor of breast cancer. We’ve told my mother that my brother has a small mouth cancer and that he is going to have surgery, all of which is true, but we don’t see any point in going into detail about how tough the recovery is going to be. But the doctor says he will recover. And we’re trying to hold on to that thought through the rough days that are coming, days with a tracheotomy tube and a feeding tube. He’s a good man. Please add him and his wife to your prayers.
